This article is about wedding dance lessons and the problems that they caused for an engaged couple. If you find yourself in a similar situation hopefully it will also be helpful to you!
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Recently I received a call from an old friend, who I haven’t heard from in a couple of years. She told me that she was finally getting married after many failed relationships with the wrong type of guys.
She was very happy with her fiance and was currently in the San Francisco area planning her wedding for next year. There was only one problem. Her fiance can’t dance and needs wedding dance lessons!
She’s a great social dancer and has many years of experience dancing in various styles including Salsa, Bachata, Kizomba, and Zouk. Her fiance on the other hand had absolutely zero dance experience.
In fact, he had never danced and didn’t look forward to dancing at his wedding with friends and family looking on. He said, “he was a man and men don’t dance”. He prefers to sit back and relax with a drink in a low-key setting.
Normally this wouldn’t be a problem, however, my friend absolutely loves to dance. She has been dancing since she was a child and has always dreamed about her first dance at her wedding.
She realized that while her fiance is a great guy, he has absolutely no clue how to dance. Moreover, she believes he has a fear of dancing in public.
He told her he’d rather go to the dentist and get a tooth pulled or a cavity drilled than have to go dancing in public.
She asked me for some advice and here is what I told her.
The first thing I suggested was for her to sit down with her fiance and explain how she felt. Especially how important this first dance was to her and how she dreamed about it since childhood.
It is important that he realizes how important an issue it is to her so he can take it seriously. Once he agrees to get wedding dance lessons, they should then come up with a written plan!
The next step to make this a successful first dance is for both of them to practice, practice, and practice some more. The more time they spend practicing the better chance they have at a successful first dance.
Lastly, the final step in their plan should be dancing in public in order to get him comfortable with dancing in public. I suggested she take him dancing at several local Salsa and Bachata socials.
Since she is located now in the San Francisco area I also gave her a couple of tips on what to look for when choosing a professional dance teacher.
While living in the San Francisco California area is not cheap you can expect to pay around $150 an hour for wedding dance lessons. With these tips, they should be able to find the right professional dance instructor to meet their needs!
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